Decent caring man seeks soulmate& friend

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Philosophical, active, like to laugh. Cooking is a passion, music is a must have - all day long, hiking around my beautiful river valley farm is really cool, or 20 minutes away the Cederberg Mountain wilderness. I really dig working on the house, its a great feeling to live in a house you built with your own hands. I will never be finished, it’s a labour of love. I need a feminine touch before I start on the inside, help? Its a bachelor pad. I am very healthy, fit, slim, lean, 73kg x 179cm cis good BMI, young at heart, young for age, feel better than I did at 40. Like to work hard physically, specially if inspired by a feminine creature of delight and wonder. A woman certainly inspires this man. Honesty and straight talking are serious values to me, deceit makes me feel sick inside. Its weird, I cannot stand to see it, even read about it. Reality is wonderful, why change it? I have realised my dream, I live in paradise, I am virtually self sustaining. Supply my own electricity, water, services, build my own house, roads, even red wine grapes, and surrounded by incredible beauty. Was not expecting to be without my other half. I am a man who loves/needs female company, desperately need that total feminine opposite to me. I am comfortable with who I am, I like me, and I love to be with her. I find much male company boring, the need to brag shows a lack, and the need to drink shows a fear of who you are. A woman adds perspective and conversation is so much more interesting. Positive outlook, feel I can achieve anything. I love to do things others are scared of, not jumping off bridges, I mean life decisions. Yeah sometimes its a mistake, but even that gives value, Mr Mistake is my favourite teacher, and what a blast life is when you fear nothing and never have to sit on your hands and watch others.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

5' 11 (1.8 m)

My Eyes Are

Green

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Legs

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Other

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog, I Own A Farm

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

High School Diploma

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Administrative / Management

My Job Title Is

Own my business

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Cooking, Dining, Family, Internet, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Tv

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Going To A Concert, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Romantic dinner at a lovely old restaurant in the old harbour, then a walk along the ocean shore in the moonlight. There are very few people living on the West Coast, a feeling of freedom, missing from the City.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Hang gliding, paragliding, flying a small plane (maybe I will get one one day)

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

My Religion Is

Christian

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

I have EVERYTHING I have achieved my dream life. But was not expecting to be divorced and without my other half, my soul mate, my true friend and lover.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Electronic, Folk, Jazz, Latin, New age, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Home & Garden, Instructional, Philosophy

My Idea Of Fun Is

Doing something with my girl, total immersion without distraction in something delightful in the home or at the coast or in the mountains, as long as my best friend is with me, totally, 100% and lets me give her all of me and gives me same in return

What Do You Find Attractive?

Humor, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed